Haters "gonna" Hate
"Don't let anyone's ignorance, hate, drama or negativity stop you from being the best person you can be," @Thegoodquote. Never let anyone dim you sparkle baby girl. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever. At times, it may be easier said than done, but take a step back and realize WHO YOU ARE and WHERE YOU ARE GOING. I am learning in life that with more success, comes more hate. With more happiness, comes more drama and envy. Be strong enough to not let any ignorance into your indestructible bubble of happiness. Trust me, it's not worth it. Trust me, YOU are better than that.
Fortunately, I have incredible parents in my life that guide me through the difficult times. I can admit that sometimes in the past I have allowed ignorance, hate and negativity enter my life and it has done nothing but set me back. Remember, you and I are on a path of success. We work too hard to allow some ignorant comment or ridiculous drama enter our life to set us. When you're on the road to success, you just don't have time for that. You will face obstacles, highs and lows on your journey but always believe in yourself. Whether it be in a relationship, career or friendship always trust your gut and follow your heart because that will lead you to where you need to be. Believe in yourself and NEVER let anyone get in between you and your dreams.
Sadly, haters are going to hate. Have you ever heard the saying, "Misery loves company?" Well, guess what, I'm not miserable and I have all the company I need. People only hate on you because they want to be you. Haters are envious of your life, the person you are, your success or your relationship and will do anything to see you fall. But guess what haters, we see YOU and we thank you for following us! "Hi Hater!" Remember, a hater is just someone that wishes to be you. "Ignorance is a voluntary misfortune", as stated by Nicolas Ling. Drama and negativity come from people who are sadly not happy with themselves.
I've learned the best way to deal with a hater is by silencing them. By silencing, I mean by not responding back to their negativity. Why waste your precious time on someone below you? They're behind you and will always be behind you, let them watch you cross the finish line because honestly they're nothing but a fan. Secondly, silence them through your wins, through your success. There's a saying that goes, "Success is the best revenge," and I do belive that. Do not let people that don't add to your life bring you down, EVER. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT.
Be the best you can be. Be the best woman, mother, sister, wife, girlfriend - whatever it is you want to be, BE THE BEST AT THAT. I have learned the less I respond to negativity, the more peaceful my life has become.
Live a life worth living. Do not let anyone bring you down. Keep rising, keep shining, and sparkle in all your glory!
Xo, Blu